March 16, 2010 by Johnny Cupcakes
He might be the king of hearts, but look how emotionally drained he is. Between the expression on his face & the sword going through his head. Looking at this card reminded me of how many people are in, or stay in relationships for the wrong reason. Don’t settle for less just because you’re afraid of not finding another person. If you’re not fully happy, feeling incomplete, still having to check-in a bazillion times a day because of trust issues, get in the occasional argument over old baggage, etc.– then do something about it.
Some people get so caught up in a relationship that they half ass their life. Some people get so caught up in life that they half ass their relationship. In my opinion, the smartest thing to do is to make sure you build a strong foundation for your life before taking on the responsibility of another humans emotions. It’s not fair for your lover and it’s not fair for you. You don’t want to half ass both and become emotionally drained like the king of hearts.
my view... i agree with this 100%, ive seen so many people go in and out of relationships, divorcing only after a couple of months, or staying together but only fighting 90% of the times...why do that to yourself, now yes there are times where i can understand someone must feel like, "damn im lonely" but at the end of the day, your happiness comes first, how do you expect to be in a relationship, where you have to share emotions, express feelings if you can even describe what going on in your head first..?
He might be the king of hearts, but look how emotionally drained he is. Between the expression on his face & the sword going through his head. Looking at this card reminded me of how many people are in, or stay in relationships for the wrong reason. Don’t settle for less just because you’re afraid of not finding another person. If you’re not fully happy, feeling incomplete, still having to check-in a bazillion times a day because of trust issues, get in the occasional argument over old baggage, etc.– then do something about it.
Some people get so caught up in a relationship that they half ass their life. Some people get so caught up in life that they half ass their relationship. In my opinion, the smartest thing to do is to make sure you build a strong foundation for your life before taking on the responsibility of another humans emotions. It’s not fair for your lover and it’s not fair for you. You don’t want to half ass both and become emotionally drained like the king of hearts.
my view... i agree with this 100%, ive seen so many people go in and out of relationships, divorcing only after a couple of months, or staying together but only fighting 90% of the times...why do that to yourself, now yes there are times where i can understand someone must feel like, "damn im lonely" but at the end of the day, your happiness comes first, how do you expect to be in a relationship, where you have to share emotions, express feelings if you can even describe what going on in your head first..?
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